The Crossdresser From the Woman’s Perspective

How Women Feel About Male Cross-dressing

Let’s take a look at the crossdresser from the woman’s perspective. There are several different feelings that can arise from a woman’s perspective regarding cross-dressing. Most open-minded women accept it. After all, you know what they say, “imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.” Most liberal women appreciate the fact that men admire women so much, that they feel the need to dress like them.

Many women find male crossdressing very flattering and endearing. When men dress like women, they tend to display more feminine movements and gestures. Women tend to think of it as cute. It seems to be, at the same time, that the women who do think of it as sweet and endearing, are also women who are very confident and secure within themselves. They know who they are, and what type of woman they are on the inside.

These confident women sometimes take on the role of “mentor” to these male crossdressers. They help and guide the male crossdressers, giving them advice on how to be feminine. Some of these confident women find it easy to become dominant with the crossdressers. Meanwhile, the male crossdresser loves having a mentor and getting tips and advice from these dominant women. They slip into their role as “submissive.”

The Crossdresser and “Territory”

Other issues that can arise from a woman’s perspective, regarding the crossdresser, are territorial issues. Some women find it actually insulting that these men want to dress like women. These women, who have these issues, are usually not as confident and secure with who they are, as the other women who have no problems with it. One reason why these women find it so insulting is because they feel that crossdressers reduce their womanhood to just clothes, makeup and physical characteristics.

When these men dress like women and put makeup on, they automatically feel more feminine. These women know there is so much more to being a woman than clothes and makeup. (We assume everybody knows this) But, for some reason, these insulted women feel that these men think that fashion and appearance are everything. We all know this isn’t true.  Evidently, it seems these insulted women  have self esteem issues.

The Male Crossdresser and Female Confidence

As has been noted, women who are confident and secure are usually accepting and welcoming of cross dressers. These women sometimes take on the dominant role with these submissive crossdressers. Frequently, the women don’t entirely understand the “whys” of this.  In truth, neither do the crossdressers. But, they like a women to take charge of them and guide them down their journey of feminization.

Oftentimes, these crossdressers are called sissies by these dominant women. They even refer to themselves as being sissy. Sissies refer to these dominant women as their mistresses. In brief, they give up all control over their body, mind and soul to a mistress.

This can be very sexually charging and erotic to the self-proclaimed sissy, to leave their fate in the hands of their mistress. In short, they get their sadomasochistic desires fulfilled. It’s almost as if they get off on it, being humiliated by their mistress. In fact, they do get off on it. It can also be very exciting for the mistress, as well.

The Mistress

Who is this mistress? The mistress is a confident woman who takes the dominant role, essentially making a sissy or sissies act as their slave/s. Mistresses usually have high self esteem, are dominant by nature, confident and secure within themselves. The sissy looks up to their mistress. Sissies idolize their mistress, only wishing that they could be half the woman their mistress is.

On the other hand, not all cross dressers like to take on a submissive role. Some simply  love women’s clothing. They just want to dress like a woman. They do not seek humiliation nor being told what to do. Sometimes, they just like to have a friend. They want a girlfriend they can chat and gossip with, just like most women. So, some women take on the role of just being a friend.

Crossdressing, Submission and Domination

A typical slave will usually do housework for the mistress and/or run errands. However, there can be so much more to it. There is a popular term mistresses and sissies use. It is, “sissy training.”  Mistresses understand that they are on a pedestal.  They exist above the submissive sissy. The sissy knows they are beneath their mistress, giving up any self-control that they had to their mistress.

The mistress will “train” her sissy. Sometimes, males don’t want to admit that they want to be a woman, or look like one. Even though they know, deep inside, their longing to be a woman, they like their mistress to essentially “coerce” them into wearing women’s clothing and make-up. It can also be very intense and sexual both for the mistress and the sissy involved.

Usually when the relationship escalates into something sexual, the mistress will then act as the dominant male in the relationship. She may use dildos or strap-ons on the sissy. She may force the sissy to be feminized, otherwise known as forced feminization.  Sometimes,  she will  force the sissy to find other men or sissies with whom to be sexual.

Befriend the Crossdresser

Being a mistress, mentor or friend to these male crossdressers or sissies can be very empowering for women. Since you are essentially placed on a pedestal, your confidence level can skyrocket. It can help you realize your sense of femininity. Most women are very busy. They are busy taking care of families, working full-time jobs, volunteering, etc. Therefore, they don’t always have time to get all dolled up to look their best. Being in the dominant position with one of these sissies, who worships you, can give you your sense of feminization back.

It makes you realize you should slow down, embrace your womanhood. Concentrate on making yourself look and feel like the fabulous woman you are! Any woman who is ever approached by a crossdresser should be friendly and understanding. There is absolutely no reason to be insulted by these crossdressers. In fact, they are probably a little jealous of you, wishing they could be just like you. Indeed, you should try to build a friendship with them. You may even find yourself slipping into that dominant role. This, in turn, will be beneficial to your self esteem and confidence. Even if you have always had high self esteem, being friends with a crossdresser will only improve your outlook towards feminization.

To learn more about a woman’s perspective on the crossdresser, give one of our Feminization Mistresses a call, today!